DAILY TEXT, Sunday, March 15, 2026. The prudent person acts with knowledge (Prov. 13:16).

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Sunday, March 15, 2026

The prudent person acts with knowledge (Prov. 13:16).

What if you find someone you think could make a good husband or wife? Should you rush to express your interest? The Bible teaches that a wise person first acquires knowledge and then acts. So, it's wisest to observe the person discreetly for a while before expressing your feelings.

A brother from the Netherlands named Albert says, “Feelings can fade as quickly as they arrive. So it’s best to take your time to observe the other person and not rush into a relationship.” On the other hand, by calmly observing her, you might conclude that she’s not the right person for you.

You may wonder, “How can I discreetly observe the other person?” For example, at the Kingdom Hall or at a social gathering, you might notice details about their personality, their behavior, or their spirituality. Who are their friends? What do they talk about? (Luke 6:45) Are their goals similar to yours? Perhaps you could speak with the elders in their congregation or with other mature Christians who know them well and ask for references. (Prov. 20:18) You could ask them about their reputation and what qualities they possess. (Ruth 2:11) However, when observing the person, be careful not to make them feel uncomfortable. Respect their feelings, their privacy, and their personal space. w24.05 22 pars. 7, 8

Before expressing your interest to someone, what should you be convinced of?

So, how long should you observe someone before telling them you're interested? If you tell them too soon, they might think you're impulsive (Prov. 29:20). But if they notice your interest and you wait too long to tell them, they might think you're indecisive (Eccl. 11:4). Remember, to express your interest to someone, you don't need to be convinced you're going to marry them. But you do need to be convinced that you're ready for marriage and that this person could be the right one for you.

What should you do if you notice that someone is interested in you but you don't feel the same way?

What if you notice that someone is interested in you? What can you do? If you don't feel the same way, make it clear through your actions. It would be very inconsiderate to let them get their hopes up if deep down there's no chance (1 Cor. 10:24; Eph. 4:25).

What should be taken into account in places where the customs mentioned in the paragraph exist?

In some places, parents or other adult relatives are expected to choose a single person's husband or wife. In other places, family or friends take on the task of finding a partner for the single man or woman, and then arrange for them to meet and see if they are compatible. If we are asked to do either of these things, we should consider the preferences and needs of both people.

If we feel we have found a good match for our friend or relative, let us try to learn as much as possible about their personality, their qualities, and above all, their spirituality. A close friendship with Jehovah is far more important than money, education, and social standing. In any case, let us not forget that the final decision to marry or not to marry must be made by the single man and woman (Gal. 6:5).

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