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“He comforts us [...] so that we may be able to comfort with the comfort we receive from God” (2 COR. 1:4).
1. Why should we comfort others?
We need to comfort others because we all face trials and difficulties that can discourage us. As 1 Peter 1:6 indicates, we live with anguish over various trials, and when we go through those times, we are very grateful when someone encourages us and makes us feel supported.
Jehovah sets the best example for us, since he is “the God of all comfort” and helps us in any difficult situation, as shown at 2 Corinthians 1:3, 4. In addition, Jesus taught at Matthew 7:12 that we should treat others as we would like to be treated.
This makes us reflect on the value of a kind word or a genuine expression of interest. In the congregation, comfort strengthens the bonds of love and helps us move forward with hope.
THE MEANING OF “COMFORT” IN THE BIBLE
2. In the Bible, what meanings can the Greek word translated “comfort” have?
In the Bible, the Greek word translated as “comfort” can convey ideas such as encouraging, exhorting, or counseling, depending on the context. As Romans 12:8 points out, it is not limited to alleviating emotional pain, but also includes strengthening a person to move forward.
Literally, it means “to call to one’s side,” which helps us imagine someone approaching a friend who is suffering to offer support and companionship. The goal is always for the person to end up feeling more uplifted and strengthened.
This leads us to believe that comforting others isn't just about saying kind words, but about being present and offering practical help. Within the congregation, this kind of support can make a significant difference in the lives of our brothers and sisters.
3. What good example did Barnabas set for us? (See also the image).
Barnabas was an excellent example of someone who knew how to comfort others. Acts 4:36 shows that the apostles gave him the nickname “Son of Comfort,” a description that perfectly reflected his personality.
When Saul became a Christian, many disciples were wary of him because of his past as a persecutor. However, Barnabas saw beyond those fears and decided to support him. According to Acts 9:26-28, he introduced him to the apostles and helped him be accepted among the believers.
This reminds us of the importance of trusting people when they show genuine change. In the congregation, we can imitate Barnabas by reaching out to those who need support, encouragement, or understanding. His example demonstrates that one person can contribute greatly to the spiritual well-being of others.
ILLUSTRATION
Barnabas looked at Saul with a smile and took him to the house of one of the apostles to introduce him. The two apostles who were there looked at Saul with suspicion as he approached them.
Barnabas lived up to his name. (See paragraph 3).
HOW TO COMFORT OTHERS
4. What is one of the best ways to comfort others? (Romans 1:11, 12).
One of the best ways to comfort others is to visit them and spend time with them when possible. As 1 Kings 19:4-7 relates, Jehovah himself sent an angel to strengthen Elijah when he was deeply discouraged.
The apostle Paul also recognized the value of personally encouraging the brothers, as indicated in Romans 1:11, 12. A visit is not simply a greeting and leaving, but involves dedicating time and attention to the person.
And if we can't be physically present, a call, a letter, or a heartfelt message can also be very encouraging. This makes us think about how many opportunities we have to strengthen others through simple gestures, but ones filled with concern and Christian love.
5. What can we expect from this system?
We can expect that, as this system moves towards its end, it will become increasingly difficult to comfort our brothers, especially when there is opposition or persecution.
The example of Onesiphorus is very inspiring. According to 2 Timothy 1:16-18, he sought out Paul while he was imprisoned in Rome, despite the risks involved. Likewise, many brothers and sisters today have shown great courage by supporting other believers during trials or difficult situations.
This makes us reflect on whether we are prepared to show that same spirit of courage when needed. In our congregation, our support can mean so much to those facing intense trials.
6. How can we imitate Jehovah by comforting others? (See also the picture.)
We can imitate Jehovah by comforting others through attentive and patient listening. When Elijah repeatedly expressed his concerns, Jehovah listened to him lovingly, without interrupting or growing weary of hearing him, as we see at 1 Kings 19:9, 10, 14.
He also listened to Habakkuk when he spoke to him in a very moving way about his concerns. Similarly, James 1:19 encourages us to be quick to listen. This means paying real attention to what the person is feeling, without rushing to give advice or getting annoyed if they repeat certain ideas.
This makes us reflect on how valuable it is to feel understood. In the congregation, patient listening can greatly alleviate a brother's emotional burden. Sometimes, the best comfort begins simply with loving listening.
ADDITIONAL COMMENT
We can imitate Jehovah by listening attentively and patiently. He listened to Elijah again and again without growing weary, and he also listened to Habakkuk’s concerns. James 1:19 encourages us to be quick to listen.
When a brother or sister confides in him, we should not interrupt or rush to correct him. Often, simply feeling heard is a great comfort. Jehovah teaches us that listening with love can greatly strengthen someone who is suffering.
ILLUSTRATION
One sister patiently listens to another sister vent her feelings. The hours pass and it gets late.
Let us imitate Jehovah and listen carefully to our brothers. (See paragraph 6.)
7. How can we find out what someone who is suffering needs?
We can find out what someone who is suffering needs by listening very carefully and asking tactful questions. Jehovah can read hearts, but we do not have that ability.
That's why Proverbs 20:5 compares a person's thoughts to deep waters that require effort to bring to the surface. We might think we know exactly what a brother or sister needs because we would act a certain way in their place, but every person is different.
This reminds us of the importance of not jumping to conclusions. In the congregation, listening carefully and showing genuine interest will help us better understand the feelings and needs of our brothers and sisters.
8. How did Jesus comfort Martha and Mary, and what do we learn? (See also the pictures.)
Jesus comforted Martha and Mary differently because he understood that each had different needs. According to John 11:20-35, when he spoke with Martha, he gave her reasons to strengthen her faith in the resurrection. In contrast, when he saw Mary weeping, he shared her grief and wept with her.
This story demonstrates that there is no single way to comfort people. Some need to hear biblical texts or words of hope, while others first need someone to understand their feelings. This makes us reflect on the importance of being observant and empathetic.
In our congregation, we can be of great help when we tailor our support to the needs of each brother and sister. Jesus' example teaches us that true comfort comes from love and understanding.
ILLUSTRATION
Images of an elderly man visiting two widowers: 1. The elderly man places his hand on the shoulder of one brother as he weeps. 2. The elderly man shows a Bible verse to an older brother, and they look at photos in an album together.
When comforting others, let us try to find out what they really need. (See paragraph 8.)
9. How does the Bible help us to comfort others? (Romans 15:4, 5).
The Bible helps us to comfort others because it contains the message of hope that Jehovah has given to strengthen his servants. Romans 15:4, 5 explains that the Scriptures provide us with endurance, encouragement, and hope.
When we share an appropriate text with someone who is suffering, we are not only conveying our own thoughts, but also Jehovah’s thoughts. Furthermore, Isaiah 40:31 shows that hope in Jehovah gives us renewed strength to keep going.
This makes us reflect on the importance of becoming familiar with comforting texts so we can have them on hand when someone needs them. In the congregation, a timely Bible reading can remain etched in a person's heart for years. Jehovah can use his holy spirit to help us recall the exact verse someone most needs to hear.
10. Why is it so important to speak kindly when comforting?
It is very important to speak kindly when comforting, because our words can heal or wound. Proverbs 12:18 points out that some words are like sword thrusts, while the tongue of the wise brings healing.
Jehovah set an excellent example for us when he helped Elijah correct some wrong thoughts without humiliating him or harshly rebuking him. According to 1 Kings 19:15-18, he treated him with patience and affection. This makes us think about the need to choose our words carefully when we counsel or encourage others.
In the congregation, we can often help a brother or sister regain spiritual balance by offering kind and positive comments. Words spoken with love reflect Jehovah’s personality and have great power to strengthen hearts.
11. What do those who are suffering often need? (1 John 3:18).
Often, those who are suffering need more than just words. They also need practical help. 1 John 3:18 reminds us that love must be shown “in deeds and in truth.” Barnabas was a fine example of this when he sold property to help brothers in need, as recorded at Acts 4:36, 37.
Something similar happens today when brothers and sisters help each other in emergency situations, illness, or personal difficulties. This makes us think that true Christian love seeks concrete ways to help.
In the congregation, a prepared meal, a visit, material assistance, or selfless help can become a great source of comfort. Loving actions often convey Jehovah’s affection in a way that words alone cannot always express.
12. How do we help our brothers and sisters when we are going through difficulties?
We help our brothers when we endure difficulties, because our example strengthens their faith and shows them that Jehovah continues to support his servants.
Paul explained that the endurance and faithfulness of the Christians in Thessalonica had deeply comforted and encouraged him, according to 1 Thessalonians 3:5-8. He also knew that his own perseverance could strengthen other brothers, as Colossians 2:1, 2 indicates.
This leads us to believe that our trials can have a positive effect on those who observe us. In the congregation, when we continue to serve faithfully despite health problems, opposition, or family difficulties, we encourage others to do the same. Our endurance can become visible proof that Jehovah never abandons those who trust in him.
13. What quality do we need, and why?
We need patience because comfort doesn't always produce immediate results. A person who is suffering may need time to recover emotionally or to cope with a difficult situation.
That is why 1 Thessalonians 5:11 encourages us to continually encourage one another. Furthermore, verse 14 reminds us of the importance of being patient with everyone. This suggests that we should not become discouraged if our efforts do not seem to bear fruit immediately.
In the congregation, some people need constant support for weeks, months, or even years. If we continue to show genuine interest and persevere in our affection, we can become a real help to them. Jehovah is patient with us, and we too want to reflect that beautiful quality.
ADDITIONAL COMMENTS
We need patience because comfort rarely produces immediate results. A person who is suffering may need a long time to recover or feel better. That is why 1 Thessalonians 5:11 encourages us to keep encouraging one another constantly.
We shouldn't give up if we don't see quick results. Patience and perseverance demonstrate genuine love and can make a huge difference in a sibling's life.
WHAT TO DO WHEN WE NEED COMFORT
14, 15. What should we do if we feel overwhelmed or distressed?
If we feel overwhelmed or distressed, we should turn to Jehovah in prayer and also seek help from trusted, mature brothers and sisters. Psalm 94:19 shows that Jehovah can comfort us when we are full of worries, and Philippians 4:6, 7 assures us that his peace can guard our hearts and minds.
Furthermore, Proverbs 14:10 reminds us that others don't always know what we feel if we don't express it. This leads us to believe that asking for help is not a sign of weakness, but of humility and faith.
In the congregation, elders and other experienced brothers and sisters can provide spiritual support, listen to us, and share encouraging Bible verses. Jehovah often uses his people to answer many of our prayers.
16. What might happen when others try to encourage us, but what should we remember?
When others try to encourage us, they may make mistakes or say something that doesn't help as much as we hoped. However, we must remember that we are all imperfect.
James 3:2 says that we all stumble many times over our words, and 1 Corinthians 13:4, 7 highlights the importance of patience and love. This makes us think about the good intentions of those who try to help us.
In the congregation, our brothers and sisters may not always find the perfect words, but they usually want to comfort us sincerely. Therefore, it's best to focus on their love and not on their mistakes.
Remembering that “the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak,” as Matthew 26:41 points out, will help us to be more understanding and grateful.
17. What goal should we set for ourselves?
Our goal should be to comfort one another as much as we can. As the last days draw near, difficulties increase, and the need for encouragement becomes ever more apparent. Jehovah wants his servants to form a close-knit spiritual family, where everyone receives support when they need it.
The theme text of 2 Corinthians 1:4 shows that Jehovah comforts us so that we, in turn, can comfort others. This makes us think that each one of us can become a source of encouragement within the congregation.
A visit, a phone call, a heartfelt conversation, or practical help can have a profound impact. If we strive to imitate the God of all comfort, we will contribute to strengthening and protecting our brothers and sisters.
WHAT WOULD YOU ANSWER?
What is the meaning of “comfort” in the Bible?
Comforting means much more than saying kind words. It includes encouraging, strengthening, advising, and reaching out to someone to help them cope with a difficult situation. The goal is for them to feel empowered and regain their spirits.
How can we comfort others?
We can comfort them by visiting them, listening to them attentively, using the Bible to strengthen their hope, speaking kindly, helping them in practical ways, and demonstrating constant patience and love.
What can we do when we need comfort?
We should pray to Jehovah sincerely, tell him our feelings, and accept help from mature brothers. It is also important to be patient and appreciate the good intentions of those who try to encourage us.
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