DAILY TEXT, Tuesday, May 26, 2026. A true friend loves at all times (Prov. 17:17).

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Tuesday, May 26, 2026

A true friend loves at all times (Prov. 17:17).

We can support the engaged couple by being careful about what we say. At times, we may need to restrain ourselves and say nothing (Prov. 12:18). For example, we may be excited about telling others that there is a new couple, but the couple may prefer to share the news themselves. We should not go around talking about them or criticizing them for personal matters (Prov. 20:19; Rom. 14:10; 1 Thess. 4:11). Nor should we make comments or ask questions that assume they are going to get married.

What if a couple decides to break up? Let’s not try to find out why they separated or take sides (1 Pet. 4:15). If a couple ends their relationship, it doesn’t necessarily mean that the courtship failed. Usually, it means that the courtship served its purpose: It helped them to make a good decision. But that doesn’t mean the decision isn’t painful, so let’s be ready to support them. w24.05 31 pars. 15, 16

What should couples consider when deciding how long their courtship should last?

How long should a courtship last? Hasty decisions often end badly (Prov. 21:5). So you should take the time you need to get to know the other person well. But don’t put things off unnecessarily either, for the Bible says that “expectations that are delayed make the heart sick” (Prov. 13:12). Also, the longer the courtship lasts, the harder it can be to resist sexual temptations (1 Cor. 7:9). Instead of thinking about how long you have been dating, ask yourself, “What else do I need to know about the other person to make a decision?”

What are some ways to help engaged couples?

If we know a couple who are dating, how can we help them? Perhaps by inviting them out, for a meal, or to our family worship (Rom. 12:13). This will allow them to get to know each other even better. If they need it, we can offer to accompany them, give them a ride somewhere, or invite them to our home so they can talk without being alone (Gal. 6:10). Alicia, mentioned in paragraph 7, says: “Albert and I were very grateful when some brothers told us we could visit them whenever we wanted a place to be together without being alone.” What if a couple asks us to accompany them? Let’s see it as a wonderful opportunity to help them. Of course, we need to be observant to notice when they need us to give them time and space to talk about their things, but at the same time, we shouldn’t leave them completely alone (Phil. 2:4).

What should the couple continue doing?

As we've seen, dating has its challenges, but it can also be a very beautiful time. Jessica recalls: “Honestly, dating required a lot of time and effort. But it was worth every second.” If you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, keep striving to get to know the person well. This way, you can have a successful relationship: one that leads both of you to a good decision.

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