DAILY TEXT, Sunday, March 22, 2026. Let God know your requests (Phil. 4:6).

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Sunday, March 22, 2026

Let God know your requests (Phil. 4:6).

If you want to get married, you have probably already prayed to Jehovah about it. Of course, Jehovah has not promised anyone that he will find them a partner. But he is interested in your feelings and needs, and he can help you in your search. So keep telling him what you want and how you feel (Psalm 62:8). Ask him for patience and wisdom (James 1:5).

What if time passes and you still haven't found anyone? Even so, Jehovah promises to provide for your physical and emotional needs (Ps. 55:22). However, don't let finding a partner become the most important thing in your life (Phil. 1:10). What truly makes a Christian happy is not being single or married, but being a friend of Jehovah (Matt. 5:3). Furthermore, while you are single, you likely have more freedom to expand your service to Jehovah (1 Cor. 7:32, 33). So make the most of your singleness. w24.05 21 par. 4; 22 par. 6

Why is it wise to take time to observe someone before expressing your interest in them? (Proverbs 13:16)

What if you find someone who seems like they could make a good husband or wife? Should you rush to express your interest? The Bible teaches that a wise person first acquires knowledge and then acts (read Proverbs 13:16). So it's wisest to observe the person discreetly for a while before expressing your feelings. A brother in the Netherlands named Albert says: “Feelings can fade as quickly as they appear. So it's best to take your time to observe the other person and not rush into a relationship impulsively.” On the other hand, after carefully considering the person, you might conclude that they are not the right one for you.

How can a single person observe someone they are interested in? (See also the image.)

You may be wondering, “How can I discreetly observe the other person?” For example, at the Kingdom Hall or at a social gathering, you might notice details about their personality, their behavior, or their spirituality. Who are their friends? What do they talk about? (Luke 6:45) Are their goals similar to yours? Perhaps you could speak with the elders in their congregation or with other mature Christians who know them well and ask for references. (Prov. 20:18) You could ask them about their reputation and what qualities they possess. (Ruth 2:11) However, when observing the person, be sure not to make them feel uncomfortable. Respect their feelings, their privacy, and their personal space.

Before expressing your interest to someone, what should you be convinced of?

So, how long should you observe someone before telling them you're interested? If you tell them too soon, they might think you're impulsive (Prov. 29:20). But if they notice your interest and you wait too long to tell them, they might think you're indecisive (Eccl. 11:4). Remember, to express your interest to someone, you don't need to be convinced you're going to marry them. But you do need to be convinced that you're ready for marriage and that this person could be the right one for you.

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