Watchtower Study, Week of January 27 to February 2, 2025, Do you have the goal of being an elder?, Underlined Answers.

Watchtower Study, January 27, February 2, 2025, Do you have the goal of being an elder?, Underlined Answers.

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“If a man is striving to be an overseer, he desires a very good work” (1 TIM. 3:1).

1, 2. What does “very good work” done by elders include?

If you have been a ministerial servant for some time, it is very likely that you already meet many of the requirements for being an elder. Could you try a little harder and do that “very good job”? (1 Tim. 3:1).

2 What exactly does an old man do? He takes the lead in preaching, works hard shepherding and teaching the brothers, and edifies the congregation by what he says and what he does. No wonder the Bible calls these hard-working elders “gift men” (Eph. 4:8).

3. What does a brother need to be named an elder? (1 Timothy 3:1-7; Titus 1:5-9).

3 What does it take to be named an elder? Meeting the requirements to be an elder is not like meeting the requirements to get a job. In the world of work, it is usually enough to have the basic skills that the employer asks for. On the other hand, to be named an elder it is necessary to be more than skilled in preaching and teaching. You must meet the biblical requirements listed in 1 Timothy 3:1-7 and Titus 1:5-9 (read them). In this article we will see what is required of an elderly person in three essential fields: have a good reputation both inside and outside the congregation, be an exemplary householder, and be willing to serve the congregation.

HAVE A GOOD REPUTATION

4. What does it mean to “be blameless”?

4 One of the requirements for the elder is “to be blameless.” In other words, no one in the congregation should be able to question your good behavior. Furthermore, “it must have a good reputation among outsiders.” Nonbelievers may criticize their Christian beliefs, but they should have no valid reason to doubt that it is honest and good (Dan. 6:4, 5). Ask yourself, “Do I have a good reputation inside and outside the congregation?”

5. What does “loving what is good” mean?

5 “Loving what is good” means noticing the good things in others and complimenting them on their qualities. It also includes feeling happy doing good things for others, even going beyond what is strictly necessary (1 Thes. 2:8). Why is it so important for the elderly to be like this? Because they must invest much of their valuable time in shepherding the congregation and attending to their responsibilities (1 Pet. 5:1-3). Still, the joy of serving others makes up for any sacrifice (Acts 20:35).

6. In what ways does someone show that they are hospitable? (Hebrews 13:2, 16; see also image).

6 The “hospitable” man does not limit himself to doing good things for the people in his circle of friends (1 Pet. 4:9). As a certain reference work says, “The door to your house and your heart must be open to strangers.”. Ask yourself: “Do I have a reputation for welcoming visitors?” (read Hebrews 13:2, 16). The hospitable man shares what he can with those who visit him, including those who have few resources and those who work hard on behalf of their brothers, such as circuit overseers and visiting speakers. (Gen. 18:2-8; Prov. 3:27; Luke 14:13, 14; Acts 16:15; Rom. 12:13).

ILLUSTRATION

A couple shows a traveling overseer and his wife to their guest room. A Christian couple receives a traveling overseer and his wife with hospitality. (See paragraph 6).

7. How does an old man show that he does not love money?

7 “You must not [...] love money.” This means that you should not focus on material things. Whether rich or poor, you must put the interests of the Kingdom first in all aspects of life (Matt. 6:33). He should use time, energy, and other resources to worship Jehovah, care for his family, and serve his congregation. (Matt. 6:24; 1 John 2:15-17) Ask yourself: “What value do I place on money? Am I satisfied with the necessary things? Or do I focus on making money and acquiring more material goods?” (1 Tim. 6:6, 17-19).

8. In what ways does someone demonstrate that they are “moderate in their habits” and have “self-control”?

8 Someone is considered “moderate in their habits” and has “self-control” if they show balance in all areas of their life. This includes avoiding excesses in eating and drinking, not going to extremes in dressing and grooming, and being judicious in the use of free time. It involves not being a slave to the tendencies of this world (Luke 21:34; James 4:4). And it requires always remaining calm, even in the midst of provocations. The old man “should not be a drunk” or have a reputation for drinking too much. Ask yourself: “Do I demonstrate with my way of living that I am moderate in my habits and that I have self-control?”

9. What does it mean to have “good judgment” and be “orderly”?

9 The elder demonstrates “good judgment” when he carefully evaluates all matters in light of biblical principles. By meditating on how to apply what the Bible says, you understand each situation well and make better decisions. He is not quick to jump to conclusions. First, make sure you know all the facts (Prov. 18:13). As a result, he makes balanced decisions that reflect Jehovah's way of thinking. It is also “orderly.” This involves being organized and punctual. Everyone knows that he is reliable and follows the guidelines. Thanks to all these qualities, it has a good reputation. Let's now look at the qualities you need to be an exemplary head of household according to the Bible.

BE AN EXEMPLARY HEAD OF THE FAMILY

10. What does it mean for a man to “lead his family well”?

10 One of the requirements for a married brother to be appointed as an elder is that his family have a good reputation. That is why he is asked to “lead his family well.” He should be known as a loving and responsible head of the family, and should take the lead in all facets of Christian worship. Why is this so important? Because, as the apostle Paul said, “if a man does not know how to lead his own family, how will he care for the congregation of God?” (1 Tim. 3:5).

11, 12. How does family behavior influence whether a brother may be elderly? (See also the image).

11 If the brother is the father of minor children, he must have “his children in subjection to him in all seriousness.” You have to teach and educate them with love. Of course, like all children, they will like to laugh and play. But, if they are taught well, they will be obedient and respectful and will have good behavior. In addition, the father should help his children to be good friends of Jehovah, to live according to Bible principles, and to progress toward the goal of baptism.

12 “He must be a man [...] with believing children who cannot be accused of debauchery or rebellion.” But what happens if a believing child who lives in the house commits a serious sin? If the father has neglected the education and discipline of his son, he probably does not meet the requirements to be an elder. (see The Watchtower of October 15, 1996, page 21, paragraphs 6, 7).

ILLUSTRATION

Image Series: 1. A father leads family worship with his wife and young children. At jw.org watch the video Become a Friend of Jehovah: You Have to Love the House of Jehovah. 2. Afterwards, the father and the two male children help clean the Kingdom Hall. The father and one of the children vacuum, and the other child helps dust. The heads of families teach their children to participate in different aspects of the sacred service. (See paragraph 11).

SERVE THE CONGREGATION

13. How does someone show that they are “reasonable” and not “stubborn”?

13 Brothers who demonstrate excellent Christian qualities are a blessing to the congregation. For example, the “reasonable” brother promotes peace. If you want to be known as a reasonable person, you have to listen to others and be open to their points of view. In a meeting of elders, will you be willing to support the decision of the majority if it does not violate any principles or laws of the Bible? The old man “should not be stubborn.” That is, he does not insist on doing things his way. Rather, he recognizes the value of having many advisors (Gen. 13:8, 9; Prov. 15:22). “You should not be confrontational” or “get angry easily.” Instead of being abrupt and unpleasant, he is kind and tactful. Because he is a peaceful person, he takes the first step to maintain peace, even in tense situations (James 3:17, 18). Use kind words that can soften the bad attitudes of others, even those of opponents. (Judg. 8:1-3; Prov. 20:3; 25:15; Matt. 5:23, 24).

14. Why should an elder “not be a newly converted man,” and how does he show that he is “loyal”?

14 The old man “must not be a newly converted man.” Even if you haven't been baptized for many years, you must have had enough time to mature as a Christian. Before being named an elder, he must demonstrate that, like Jesus, he is humble and willing to serve Jehovah however he wants and whenever he wants. (Mat. 20:23; Phil. 2:5-8). Additionally, you must demonstrate that you are “loyal” by holding fast to Jehovah and his righteous standards, and by following the instructions he gives through his organization. (1 Tim. 4:15).

15. Is it essential for the elderly to be a great speaker?

15 The Scriptures make it very clear that a superintendent must be “able to teach.” Does that mean you must be a great speaker? Not necessarily. There are many good elders who are not known for giving the best talks but are effective in teaching in the ministry and in pastoring visits. (compare 1 Corinthians 12:28, 29 and Ephesians 4:11). Even so, the brother who wants to be an elder must continue to strive to improve his skills as a teacher. How can you achieve this?

16. How can a brother be a more effective teacher? (See also the image).

16 “You must hold fast to the faithful word.” To be a more effective teacher, the elder must always rely on the Word of God both when teaching in public and when giving counsel in private. He is a good student of the Bible and our publications (Prov. 15:28; 16:23). When you study, pay close attention to the correct application of the verses. And, when he teaches, he strives to reach the hearts of those who listen to him. One thing that will help you improve as a teacher is to ask experienced elders for suggestions and put them into practice (1 Tim. 5:17). Elders also have to be able to “encourage” their brothers and sisters, even if they sometimes have to give them advice or even “censure” some. But they must always do it with kindness. If you are kind and loving and base your teaching on the Word of God, you will be effective teachers because you will be imitating the Great Teacher, Jesus. (Mat. 11:28-30; 2 Tim. 2:24).

ILLUSTRATION

Series of images: 1. A ministerial servant and an elder visit a sister at her home. Everyone has the Bible open while the ministerial servant talks with it. 2. The same ministerial servant practices his speech in front of the mirror. A ministerial servant accompanies an experienced elder and learns how to use the Bible to encourage others. The same ministerial servant practices his speech in front of the mirror. (See paragraph 16).

KEEP WORKING

17. a) What can encourage ministerial servants to continue striving to be elders? b) What should elders remember when evaluating whether a brother qualifies for an appointment? (See the sidebar “Elders, Be Reasonable When Evaluating Others.”)

17 After reviewing the requirements for eldership, some ministerial servants may believe that they will never be able to meet them. But they must remember that neither Jehovah nor his organization expects them to demonstrate these qualities perfectly (1 Pet. 2:21). Additionally, they rely on the powerful spirit of Jehovah to help them achieve this goal (Philipp. 2:13). And you? Would you like to improve on any of these qualities in particular? So, pray to Jehovah, do research on the topic, and ask the elders for suggestions for improvement.

18. What should all ministerial servants do?

18 All brothers, including those who are already elderly, will do well to continue cultivating the qualities discussed in this article (Philipp. 3:16). And, if you are a ministerial servant, continue working toward your goal of eldership. Ask Jehovah to train and mold you to be even more useful to Him and the congregation. (Isa. 64:8) Jehovah will undoubtedly bless your efforts to achieve this goal.

WHAT DO WE LEARN FROM...

... 1 Timothy 3:1-7?

We learn that an elder has to:

“Be blameless.” In other words, no one in the congregation should be able to question your good behavior. Furthermore, “it must have a good reputation among outsiders.”

“Loving what is good” means noticing the good things in others and complimenting them on their qualities. It also includes feeling happy doing good things for others, even going beyond what is strictly necessary.

“Being hospitable” is not limited to doing good things for the people in your circle of friends.

“You must not love money.” This means that you should not focus on material things. Whether rich or poor, you have to put the interests of the Kingdom first in all aspects of life.

“Be moderate in your habits” and have “self-control” if you show balance in all areas of your life.

“Have good judgment” when you carefully evaluate all matters in light of biblical principles.

“Lead your family well.” He should be known as a loving and responsible head of the family, and should take the lead in all facets of Christian worship.

... Tito 1:5-9?

We learn that an elder must fulfill these three essential fields: have a good reputation both inside and outside the congregation, be an exemplary householder, and be willing to serve the congregation.

...Hebrews 13:2, 16?

We learn that the hospitable man shares what he can with those who visit him, including those who have few resources and those who work hard on behalf of their brothers, such as circuit overseers and visiting speakers.